My Fundamental Well-Aging Skincare Routine: The Gold Standard for Ageless Skin

Unlocking the secrets to youthful, radiant skin in my mid-50s (without injectables!)

GothamistaGothamistaJan 2025
My Fundamental Well-Aging Skincare Routine: The Gold Standard for Ageless Skin

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Hi everyone, Renee here! I’m excited to share my most fundamental well-aging skincare routine – the simple, streamlined approach I rely on most nights to keep my skin looking its best. This is the bedrock of my skincare; any additional products are purely supplemental, based on my skin's specific needs at any given moment.

I’m in my mid-50s and have never used injectables like Botox or filler. While I occasionally indulge in professional treatments, they are few and far between. So, my skincare routine does the heavy lifting – preventing, treating, and repairing. At least for now! Let's dive in.

Step 1: Cleansing – A Refined Approach

My cleansing process has evolved. I used to religiously double cleanse, but now a single cleanse often suffices. I don’t wear heavy makeup daily; most of what’s on my face is skincare! I reserve double cleansing for specific situations: when I’m particularly active and sweaty, when my skin feels congested, when I’m wearing more makeup than usual (especially long-wearing foundation in the summer), and absolutely when I’ve been wearing a very water-resistant, sweat-resistant, and friction-resistant sunscreen. A simple addition to my routine – microfiber wristbands – has been a game-changer, preventing soaked sleeves during cleansing.

Women's Microfiber Wrist Spa Bands - Absorbent Face Washing Wristbands and Sweatbands for Girls, Prevent Water Spilling Down Arms (6PCS)
Women's Microfiber Wrist Spa Bands - Absorbent Face Washing Wristbands and Sweatbands for Girls, Prevent Water Spilling Down Arms (6PCS)

Absorbent Face Washing Wristbands and Sweatbands for Girls, Prevent Water Spilling Down Arms (6PCS)

tl;dr

Prevents water from running down arms during cleansing.

Pros
  • Absorbent, prevents water spillage, comfortable to wear.
Cons
  • Limited to wrist use.

Juno & Co. Jade Clean 10 Cleansing Balm

My go-to first cleanser, especially this summer, has been a revisit to the Juno & Co. Jade Clean 10 Cleansing Balm. It’s the same great formula I’ve always loved, now in newer, cooler, and refillable packaging! Each refill contains the same amount of product at the same price as the original cleansing balm, but uses a remarkable 78% less plastic. A true win-win for my skin and the environment. This balm has only 10 ingredients, yet effortlessly melts away even the most stubborn Japanese mascaras and eyeliners. It emulsifies beautifully and rinses off completely clean, leaving no detectable residue. The lightweight texture transforms into a milky emulsion upon contact with water, effectively lifting away impurities without stripping the skin's natural oils. My skin feels soft, supple, and perfectly prepared for the next steps in my routine.

JUNO & Co. JADE Clean10 Cleansing Balm - Makeup Remover Balm - Effortlessly Removes Makeup & SPF - 2.87oz Makeup Remover Balm Full Set
JUNO & Co. JADE Clean10 Cleansing Balm - Makeup Remover Balm - Effortlessly Removes Makeup & SPF - 2.87oz Makeup Remover Balm Full Set

Makeup Remover Balm - Effortlessly Removes Makeup & SPF - 2.87oz Makeup Remover Balm Full Set

tl;dr

Effortlessly removes makeup with a clean rinse.

Pros
  • Eco-friendly packaging, effective on stubborn makeup, gentle on skin.
Cons
  • May not be suitable for very oily skin types.

Saatchi Skin Saponin's Cream Cleanser

On occasions when I do double cleanse, I follow up with a gentle cream cleanser – nothing too harsh or stripping. Lately, I've been loving the Saatchi Skin Saponin's Cream Cleanser. I’ve featured this cleanser before, and I’m still obsessed. The gorgeous, light pink hue and the light cream-to-gel texture are incredibly satisfying to massage into the skin. The gentle lather effectively removes any remaining traces of makeup or impurities without disrupting the skin's delicate balance. Just like the cleansing balm, it rinses away completely clean, leaving no residue behind. My skin feels refreshed, clean, and perfectly balanced.

Step 2: Hydration is Key – The Essence of Youthful Skin

Hydration is a non-negotiable step in my routine. It’s the secret to plump, youthful, and glowy skin, which becomes increasingly elusive as we age.

Saro de Rúe x Gothamista Essence

My beloved Saro de Rúe x Gothamista Essence is a staple. This essence is a true hydration powerhouse. Its lightweight, watery texture absorbs quickly into the skin, delivering a surge of moisture that instantly plumps and revitalizes. It’s fantastic for supporting the skin barrier and incredibly substantial, giving my skin that juicy, plump bounciness that I crave. This essence preps my skin beautifully for the subsequent steps in my routine, ensuring optimal absorption of the serums and treatments that follow.

Saro de Rúe x Gothamista Essence
Saro de Rúe x Gothamista Essence

Hydration Powerhouse for Youthful Skin

tl;dr

Delivers intense hydration for plump skin.

Pros
  • Quick absorption, supports skin barrier, lightweight texture.
Cons
  • May not provide enough moisture for very dry skin.

Step 3: The Power of Peptides – My Copper Peptide Journey

Next up is another gold standard: copper peptides. I’ve tried countless copper peptide formulas, but none have truly compared to the NIOD CAIS-3… until now.

Allies of Skin Copper Tripeptide and Ectoin Advanced Repair Serum

The Allies of Skin Copper Tripeptide and Ectoin Advanced Repair Serum has earned a permanent spot in my routine. While different from the CAIS-3, it’s not a replacement, but a valuable addition. This serum is packed with age-defensive peptides and, in my experience, has been remarkably effective on sensitive skin. The texture is perfect – that lovely viscosity provides slip and allows a little to go a long way. It’s incredibly hydrating and comforting. Beyond copper peptides and amino acids, this serum contains ectoin, protecting and facilitating skin repair. It also boasts 2% ghirlane, smoothing fine lines and wrinkles. The best part? It’s compatible with other actives. You can use it with retinoids (they’re complementary) and even ascorbic acid, with a five-minute wait time between applications. I’ve noticed a significant improvement in my skin’s texture and firmness since incorporating this serum into my routine.

Copper Tripeptide & Ectoin Advanced Repair Serum
Copper Tripeptide & Ectoin Advanced Repair Serum

Age-Defensive Peptide Serum

tl;dr

Hydrates and improves skin texture.

Pros
  • Compatible with other actives, effective on sensitive skin.
Cons
  • Requires a waiting period between applications with certain actives.

Step 4: The Retinoid Reign – My Personalized Approach

The cornerstone of any well-aging routine is retinoids. I’ve used tretinoin for a few years and believe in its efficacy.

Agency Personalized Tretinoin Formula

I have a personalized formula from Agency, which I love. They allow me to progress at my own pace, starting with a much lower concentration than the average prescription strength and gradually increasing it as my skin tolerates. Even after a few years, I’m still at a lower concentration (0.02% tretinoin) than the typical prescription, but it’s what works best for my skin. My formula also includes 5% tranexamic acid (for melasma), 4% niacinamide, and 1% dexpanthenol (for moisture retention). I apply my tretinoin after my liquid formulas dry down, which works well with its creamy texture. I apply it to dry skin, sometimes over a creamy moisturizer as a buffer. It spreads easily, creating a thin, even layer. I still avoid the delicate eye area, the folds of my nose, and my lip line. This personalized approach has allowed me to reap the benefits of tretinoin without the harsh side effects often associated with higher concentrations.

Customized Anti-Aging Skincare | Agency | Start Your Trial
Customized Anti-Aging Skincare | Agency | Start Your Trial

Personalized Skincare Solutions

tl;dr

Personalized skincare with gradual retinoid progression.

Pros
  • Customizable, gentle introduction to retinoids.
Cons
  • Requires ongoing consultation for adjustments.

Step 5: Targeting the Eyes – A New Tretinoin Adventure

One of the most exciting skincare developments for me this year has been Agency’s new eye formula with tretinoin. Finally, I can use tretinoin around my eyes, an area where I’ve always needed it but couldn’t tolerate stronger formulas.

Agency Personalized Eye Formula with Tretinoin

This gentle formula targets fine lines, wrinkles, and pigmentation, and even helps prevent milia. I adore the unique balm-like texture – lightweight, with great slip, and it glides on effortlessly without migrating. I avoid my mobile eyelids and lash line, focusing on my under-eye area, crow’s feet, and upper orbital bone. It’s incredibly moisturizing. My personalized eye formula contains 0.002% tretinoin (the starting point), 2% EGCG from green tea (a potent antioxidant and anti-inflammatory), 1% caffeine (for puffiness), and 1% hexapanthenol (for plump, hydrated skin). I started conservatively, phasing it in and buffering as needed, but quickly progressed to nightly use without irritation. I attribute this to my eye area being well-prepped from previous retinol use. My dermatology provider has approved increasing the strength next month, as long as I can continue using this formula nightly for two weeks without issue. I’m excited to embark on this new phase of my tretinoin journey!

Step 6: Moisturizing – The Essential Finishing Touch

A good moisturizer is essential, especially as we age. For me, a good evening moisturizer is the difference between waking up with glowing skin and waking up with… well, meh skin.

D’Alba White Truffle Double Serum and Cream

This year, I’ve been loving the D’Alba White Truffle Double Serum and Cream. It simply makes my skin look good. This innovative product combines two moisturizers in one: a hydrating gel and a rich cream. Moisturizing is situational – it’s about finding the right texture for your skin’s needs. This product addresses that perfectly, allowing customized hydration by blending the two textures. The gel and cream combine beautifully and apply like a dream. In the summer, I use more gel and less cream (though a little cream goes a long way). For drier skin, I reverse the ratio. This product is uniquely versatile for combination skin. I’m thrilled to have this as we head into the transitional weather months. Even though the cream is dense, it dries down to a velvety, natural finish that works well under makeup. The gel is luscious and hydrating, providing a healthy glow without stickiness. I always mix a little gel with the cream for extra radiance.

d'alba Piedmont Italian White Truffle Double Serum & Cream, Vegan Skincare, 2-in-1 Face Moisturizer, Vegan Collagen, Skin Firming and Tightening, Non Comedogenic, Suitable for All Skin Types (2.46 oz)
d'alba Piedmont Italian White Truffle Double Serum & Cream, Vegan Skincare, 2-in-1 Face Moisturizer, Vegan Collagen, Skin Firming and Tightening, Non Comedogenic, Suitable for All Skin Types (2.46 oz)

Vegan Skincare, 2-in-1 Face Moisturizer

tl;dr

Customizable moisture with a velvety finish.

Pros
  • Versatile for combination skin, vegan-friendly.
Cons
  • May not suit extremely oily skin types.

Step 7: Lip Care – A Nourishing Serum-Balm

And finally, lip care!

The Ordinary Squalane + Amino Acids Lip Balm

My lips aren’t particularly dry right now, so I don’t need a heavy lip mask, but I’ve been loving The Ordinary’s Squalane + Amino Acids Lip Balm. The sleek packaging initially drew me in, but it’s a fantastic lip balm. It’s not a thick, occlusive sleeping mask; it’s more like a lip serum. It feels instantly hydrating and almost plumps the skin, a different sensation than I get from buttery or waxy balms. This feels truly nourishing. When my lips are drier and prone to peeling, I might layer a lip mask over this for extra protection.

So there you have it – my complete evening skincare routine, featuring my gold standard favorites for aging well. This is my essential lineup, no extras. In a future post, I’ll share one of my favorite all-out pamper routines, mimicking professional facial treatments at home. Thanks for reading! I hope you found this helpful, and until next time, I’m wishing you great skin health!

Squalane + Amino Acids Lip Balm Natural Lip Balm Sunscreen Lip Balm All-Day Moisture Lip Care (1 PC)
Squalane + Amino Acids Lip Balm Natural Lip Balm Sunscreen Lip Balm All-Day Moisture Lip Care (1 PC)

Natural Lip Balm Sunscreen Lip Balm All-Day Moisture Lip Care (1 PC)

tl;dr

Hydrating lip balm with a serum-like feel.

Pros
  • Lightweight, nourishing, sleek packaging.
Cons
  • Not suitable as a heavy-duty lip mask.