Gisele AyoraFebruary 19, 2026

I recently finalized my divorce and moved back in with my mom with my 3 kids. Now what? I want to create a soft life. Everyone shows you the curated soft life ✨ the aesthetic, the pretty parts. But no one tells you HOW to actually get there. Here’s what I know being in my thirties and back home after divorce: it’s not about the cute moments or perfect aesthetic. It comes down to your foundation. And that foundation is a solid routine. Something that gives you clarity so you can build everything else 🫶🏼 the career, the goals, the life you want. I’ve hit rock bottom and built myself back up before. That’s what we’re doing here. I made a simple routine template 📝one for days with my kids (I have joint custody), one without. My mornings with 3 kids and 2 toddlers can be overwhelming, so I made this as easy as possible. I’m in a fragile state. I could easily spiral. But I’m taking advantage of this support and building my foundation. Template is free 💕 link in bio. Part 2: Watch me actually follow this routine. Let’s do this together🥰 #softlife #divorce #singlemom #startingover